Who Is A Disciplemaker? (Matthew 7:13-14)
A disciple-maker must first of all be a disciple simply because it is impossible to give what you don't have. The individual who is seeking an educational qualification or professional certificate must come to terms with being a student. That would entail making decisions that would prioritise his or her studying; abiding by the rules of their preferred educational institutions or professional bodies. The goal would be the qualification but there would be a process. In Matthew 7:13-14, Jesus said,
"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad and easy to travel is the path that leads the way to destruction and eternal loss, and there are many who enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow and difficult to travel is the path that leads the way to [everlasting] life, and there are few who find it." (AMP).
Since there can be no discipleship without Jesus, it stands to reason that the potential or prospective disciple must desire life - eternal life found only in Jesus. The disciple cannot have a life that is independent of Jesus because true discipleship is a function of one's relationship with Him.
It is important to note that failure to grasp the reality of everalsting life leads to self-deception and frustration. The road to eternal life is narrow and difficult; its gate is narrow. The implication is that effort, determination, and focus is required. Apostle Paul wrote, "Brothers and sisters, I do not consider that I have made it my own yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the [heavenly] prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 3:13-14, AMP).
Despite all his achievements in the ministry and in the vineyard of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus, Paul was desirous of more; he made a decision to press on toward the goal, the prize of the upward call of Jesus. In other words, he was determined to follow Jesus to the end. Is that your desire?
The early believers became disciples instantanoeusly (after receiving Jesus) because they were totally sold out to Him right from the beginning. They were determined to run their Christian races to the end, no matter what. There was no option B. I put it to you - that is where discipleship should start. The acquisition of knowledge is good but the working out of such knowledge demands sacrifice, total surrender, humility and a Kingdom mindset. In other words discipleship starts with a heartfelt commitment that is demonstrated by asking the question, "Lord, what do you want me to do?" each day of our lives. This is what Paul did in Acts 9:6.
This is why Jesus stipulated the conditions for discipleship. It makes no sense subscribing to the conditions when the willingness and commitment are not there. It makes no sense enrolling for a course when the commitment towards studying is lacking. It makes no sense to yearn for discipleship when self-aggrandisement, self-centredness, self-promotion are at the forefront.
Having decided to embrace the realities of eternal life, the believer comes to terms with the difficult conditions laid down by Jesus namely:
- Taking up one's cross daily - "Whoever does not carry his own cross [expressing a willingness to endure whatever may come] and follow after Me [believing in Me, conforming to My example in living and, if need be, suffering or perhaps dying because of faith in Me] cannot be My disciple." (Luke 14:27, AMP). There are tests, trials and temptations we would have to endure.
- Hating parents, siblings, wife and children and one's self - “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life [in the sense of indifference to or relative disregard for them in comparison with his attitude toward God]—he cannot be My disciple." (Luke 14:26, AMP). Our love for members of our immediate and extended families should look like hatred compared to our love for Jesus.
- Giving up all of one's possessions - "So then, none of you can be My disciple who does not [carefully consider the cost and then for My sake] give up all his own possessions." (Luke 14:33). We must be willing to lay all at the feet of Jesus - our educational qualifications, our careers, our money, our families, our status, our cars, etc. for the sake of the Kingdom. Apostle Paul gave up everything as did the disciples of Jesus (Matthew 4:18-22; Philippians 3: 7-11).
- Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness - "But first and most importantly seek (aim at, strive after) His kingdom and His righteousness [His way of doing and being right—the attitude and character of God], and all these things will be given to you also." (Matthew 6:33, AMP). We must out God first in everything.
- Offering our lives as a living sacrifice - "Therefore I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies [dedicating all of yourselves, set apart] as a living sacrifice, holy and well-pleasing to God, which is your rational (logical, intelligent) act of worship. And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you]." (Romans 12:1-2, AMP)